2014-03-13 From my mother.

2014-03-13

Hi Carlos.

The interview went very well, I was selected, but it was not for a job, but to take a vocational training course for employment. I have already started it, last Thursday, and, although there are moments that seem a little heavy to me – it’s 5 hours daily without changing the subject and the first module is very theoretical and structured, based on laws and concepts, acronyms … - has created many expectations for me.

As I told you in the previous letter, the trip was subject to the realization of the course, since attendance is compulsory, and does not allow absences, even if justified, of more than a variable percentage according to the module and its duration. If I miss, it hinders one from passing and going to the next, not achieving the official training, certification and qualification, valid for the entire EU. Passing the course gives you a professional certificate as a teacher of level three, which gives you access to teach for vocational trainings. So, the trip is postponed until the end of the course, on June 30.

What you are proposing to me about the Parkinson APARVAL Association, I made a contact years ago to work (because of a maternity leave from a social worker) and I was not selected. I would not mind collaborating with them, as I did with others (Aficrovall or Fundamay) but I promised to return to Fundamay when I could do it with continuity-stability. When the time comes, I will assess whether it is possible to collaborate with both. Anyway, if it is a specific collaboration, at a time or with a specific action, tell him because perhaps I can carry it out, without committing myself to something permanent or continuous that at this moment is not possible.

We have already reached the most important and difficult point to deal with, that of the family relationship. We are currently in a moment of crisis, between your father and I there are hardly any words of greeting. We are in a dynamic of wanting-not wanting, power-not power… Due to many misunderstandings and lived situations that have placed us in our point of view - partial- and lack of dialogue, difficult to solve when you are unmotivated and tired, entering and maintaining oneself in a dynamic of non-communication.

But this should not worry you, do not let it influence your daily activity, when you come and we have some time we can talk together, mediate and try to resolve, in case the same situation continues.

Your brothers are with the practices of the course that they are finishing, at the end of the month it closes. From that moment on, we’ll see what opportunities they have. A. wants to enroll in professional formation of sports activity, if he decides so, he should try it in Segovia and Ávila, where he did not want to go years ago. So, an important step for his training and future.

I have to go to the Social Security Institute to solve some things. I will continue telling you when I have receive your reply letter.

Kisses and a very strong and heartfelt hug.